A Dose of Humility

When to speak?

When to listen?

How to tell the difference

when it’s not readily obvious?

When will more words simply take away

rather than add value, clarity, connection?

How to hold the tension

between practicing showing up and being heard

and knowing when speaking up

speaking out

is only for ourselves and not generative for others?

How to silence the false self

and let the true self speak

even if it’s not to say anything

other than showing up

and being heard through your presence?

How to add a dose of humility

into all of our encounters

and be alright

with letting the last word not be ours,

but also knowing when it has to be ours,

it demands to be ours

so that a new way of considering

might emerge and be seen?

What words, or lack thereof,

are allowed to enter into this

blank space

so that the space is not dark and unseen,

full of mines and bottomless holes that

swallow us, one another,

but instead full of light and hope and promise,

pregnant with possibility?

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On Further Thought

Frederick Buechner on humility

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